AC had an awesome newborn photoshoot with my very talented sister. We really wanted to incorporate our favorite things and show off how adorable he is.
Check out how great these came out.
AC had an awesome newborn photoshoot with my very talented sister. We really wanted to incorporate our favorite things and show off how adorable he is.
Check out how great these came out.
As I’m waiting for my son to finally make his entrance, I’ve been passing the time with fun maternity photos sessions with my best friend and sister. Both had to two completely different ideas to capture this amazing stage in life and make me feel extra elegant along the way.
Below are the photos my best friend, Jesse J. Sutherland, staged for one set. His concept was to play with motion, silhouettes, the nursery and natural light.
My sister also had an amazing idea to do some delicate maternity photos that included my pets and a milk bath! We’ve all seen the milk bath photos trending on Pinterest. There are so many different ways to make their unique to your pregnancy. Here’s how mine came out using light floral colors and my very own bath tub.
Hope you got some inspiration on planning for your special moments!
Birthday’s are important, even if you’re a dog. Mr. Smokey Robinson, my adopted fur son, is celebrated his 5th birthday!
You may have read his adoption story and know that it’s been almost a full year since he joined my little family. I still can’t believe it took four years to find him and I want to spoil him on his special day.
I don’t know if little Smokey has ever celebrated a birthday. I’m not sure it crossed his mind that he’d make it past a few years old. He’s previous life in California is a mystery. My husband and I like to joke that he’s a retired gangster and his street name was Denesious. (He’s shelter name was Denise and the story spurred from there.)
Even though I can only imagine Smokey’s previous life, I am treating every holiday and celebration like it’s his first. He’s brought such happiness to my husband and I and of course his fur sister, Fiona, and I know our little baby will love him just as much as we do.
Choosing to adopt Smokey not only gave him a second chance at furever, it gave us, as a family, the ability to stand up for those that can’t speak for themselves. Pet’s of all species are such a blessing. They really are little people that leave prints on our hearts.
If you’re considering adding a furry, feathered or scaled member to your family, considering adopting a homeless pet. There are organizations all around Las Vegas and across the country that have loving animals waiting for their chance to go home. You can read more about why adopting is so important here.
Oh BOY was this holiday season a surprise. My husband and I found out our little bundle of joy is a bouncing baby boy! Alejandro Clemente (a.k.a. AC) will soon be revealing himself to the world in just a few short months. In honor of this beautiful miracle, we had to plan some amazing reveal photos.
For this shoot, I ordered blue smoke bombs from Gender Reveal Co. and headed to Red Rock Canyon to light them up. Each tube lasts about 80 seconds and created a picture perfect background. We also brought some confetti and balloons to experiment with on a few other photos. All photos were taken by the talented Jesse Sutherland. (Follow his IG here.)
Red Rock was such a great choice for photos. We set-up in Calico Basin which is free to the public! We had plenty of space to spread out and take photos on the boardwalk, near a trail or just in an open area.
First we started with the balloons. The wind was pretty crazy so battling the elements and trying to make balloons behave was a challenge. Nevertheless, Jesse captured an amazing photo.
Jesse came prepared with some launching blue streamers and fun confetti.
At one point the confetti actually blew back in my face. I wouldn’t recommend this piece on a breezy day.
My all time favorite photos of the shoot were the smoke bomb images. Once again, wind wasn’t exactly on our side so some poses didn’t work. But I the ones we did get are frame worthy.
Any moms out there do some creative gender reveals?
I wait all year for the Christmas season. It’s not just everything that happens the day of, but it’s every special tradition leading up to it. Every year, my family has held tight to fun traditions and introduced new ones as more members joined the pack. Of all the fun things we do, these are my favorite.
Watching Classic Christmas Movies
The Grinch, Frosty, Rudolph and Santa Clause is Coming to Town are Christmas staples in my family. My mom even has the collectible characters and houses from the movies! Every year since I can remember, my mom and I have broken out those Christmas movies and binged on popcorn and hot chocolate. My sister and I event like to throw Elf in the mix (although my mom will object every time). It’s the memories of watching movies we may know every line to that make the Christmas season so special.
Breakfast on Christmas Morning
With so much family living in our city, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day can be busy. When I was little, my family and I would go to a big Puerto Rican party every Christmas Eve. Sometime, it would even be at our house. Now a days, my husband and I spend Christmas Eve with his family playing games, opening Secret Santa gifts and eating tamales. Christmas Day has always been reserved for my family. But my favorite tradition about Christmas Day was breakfast in the morning,
My siblings and I would wake up extra early and wait at the top of the staircase. We couldn’t go down stairs until Dad went first. My mom always had a delicious breakfast waiting for us on the counter when we finally made it. We’d sip orang juice and eat donuts as my dad set up his old school video camera. Then, someone was elected “Santa” and passed out the presents. All the unwrapped stuff was actually from Santa and we’d lose our minds waiting to open those gifts. But those few hours of bed head and pajamas are the biggest Christmas memories I have. That short time when my siblings and parents were celebrating with just each other will always be my favorite.
Now that we’re all grown and have our own little ones, each of us does a Christmas morning at our own houses. But, we always meet at Mom and Dad’s at night to celebrate as one big family.
Jesus’ Birthday Cake
Now this tradition has only been around my family for a few years. In honor of the real meaning of Christmas, Jesus Christ’s birth, my sister has begun making a Jesus cake. Every Christmas, we all gather around a cake and sing happy birthday to Jesus. All the little kids love it because of the candles, but I really think one day they’ll understand how important it is.
Seeing Christmas Lights
Las Vegas has so many wonderful lighting displays around town. When I was younger, my family used to hop in the car and drive around the neighborhoods together. Although we do still admire individual workmanship, we’re moved on to the big displays. We’ve visited Opportunity Village’s Magical Forest, Ethel and M’s Chocolate Factory and of course the Motor Speedway’s Glittering Lights. Visiting these places really makes Christmas come to life; especially with the oversized inflatable characters and hot chocolate.
Decorating the House
I can’t waiting until Thanksgiving night or the day after to start transforming my house into a winter wonderland. I’d start decorating sooner, but my husband wants to appreciate Thanksgiving first.
Every year, my parents broke out the big decor. We’d spend hours decorating the front yard with lights, putting candy canes on the walkway, setting Frosty up at the front door and trimming the house with icicles. Inside, snowmen were everywhere – on the stairs, fireplaces, kitchen and front door. The Staircase was even lined with lit garland. And of course, a huge tree (most of the time real) sat in the living waiting for use to decorate.
My mom always liked to pick themes for our tree. Some years it was blue and silver. Others, it was red and green. No matter what color, we always had an angel at the top.
In my own house, I also like to do themes each year. I started with Lakers, then went to Star Wars and now we have the Grinch. However, I am incorporating the tradition of adding a custom ornament each year. So far, I have ones for our new home, our pets and our wedding date. Next year, I’ll add one for our baby’s first Christmas.
What are your favorite Christmas traditions?
Three years ago I made the bold decision to follow God. I chose to die to myself and live renewed in the Spirit. November 10 is my spirthday – spiritual birthday. It’s the day that I participated in the burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ who died for my sins.
I was baptized in the spirit and proclaimed Jesus is Lord of my life. Three years ago, I made this decision fully knowing that life may not get easier but I was allowing myself to be held to a higher standard. I was making the decision to live like Christ and not myself.
As I reflect on my third spiritual year as a disciple of Jesus, I remember a lot more mountains than valleys. I can remember struggling emotionally to live like Christ and not give into my selfish mentality. I fought to vanquish envy and hate and replace them with grace and love. I struggled to see the path that God was building before me. I felt desperate in my career, praying for God to give me the answer of where He wanted me to be.
But my year wasn’t just filled with many, many, many teaching moments. It was also filled with an abundance of blessings. God blessed with an amazing new job in the non-profit world where I can connect my love for the community and animals. He blessed me with my own home. He blessed me with a furry new addition to my family as well as the news of my pregnancy. I was able to meet another nephew and a great-nephew.
Day one to-day 365 wasn’t a cake walk in any way. God challenged me to live like Christ in every area of my life. He pushed me to get down on my knees and pray to allow Him to work. He reminded me what life looks like without Him and why I chose this difficult journey. But most of all, He reassured me that He is always in control.
When I try to manage my own life apart from God, I create a disaster. When I choose to glorify myself instead of Him, I fail. As I sit back and try to remeber what is was like to be 22 and fresh out of the water, it’s hard to imagine how I waited so many years to say yes to God.
No matter what the world throws at me, God’s got my back. And when the people around me are being hateful, God’s love is unconditional. And when I fail over and over, God says, “It’s okay. Let’s try it again.” He’s never given up on for one second. He’s shown me grace every time I didn’t deserve it.
I don’t know all that year four entails. I know there will be some trails but I pray for even more blessings. I’m excited for where God wants to lead me and the amazing things He wants to use me for. I hold tight to the scripture I wrote on my heart three years ago at my baptism.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make nyour paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6
Luckily for me, the first trimester wasn’t too difficult. It started off with aversions to certain foods like oatmeal, milk and fish. Then it went to strange cravings like bean and cheese burritos and limes. For the longest, I didn’t FEEL pregnant. I knew from the ultrasounds and my never-ending need to sleep that a person was growing, but I didn’t really see my stomach getting any bigger.
I’ve just hit four months and am now feeling it. I’ve had to swap my favorite skinny jeans for some elastic joggers. My new wardrobe is now filled with flowy tops, dresses and leggings. Looking back on those first three months, being pregnant was a bigger change than I thought. So I made up a few guidelines to get myself through it.
Be patient. There are so many crazy things happening to your body all at once that it’s easy to get overwhelmed. Be patient with your emotional fluctuations, food aversions and even morning sickness. Hopefully, your body will balance out and you’ll start to feel like yourself again.
Don’t compare your pregnancy. We’ve all heard it. Every pregnancy and body is not the same. Still, it didn’t stop me from over analyzing my symptoms or weight gain. I was lucky enough to not suffer from terrible morning sickness like many other women. Yes, many foods did make me feel sick. Overall though, I could function pretty normally.
It’s okay to rest. I’m the kind of person that doesn’t know when to sit down. Being pregnant has forced me to slow down and relax. The hardest part for me was changing my workouts or accepting that some days my body needed sleep more than power yoga.
If you’re like me, sleeping 12 hours a day is ideal. The whole first trimester I was fighting to stay awake past 8PM. Even now I find myself wanting a midday cat nap at work. But it’s okay. Sometimes I just have to say no to going out and doing things because my body says rest.
Pregnancy is definitely an awesome experience. I get so excited every time I go to the doctor (which is a lot, just warning you) and get to see my baby on the ultrasound screen. It’s such a surreal experience to be blessed with this tiny miracle.
“Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” PSALM 127:3
Choosing to #adoptnotshop is one of the best decisions I could have ever made. My rescue pup, Smokey, has given more love than I could imagine. It’s almost as if he understands he was given a second chance at love.
So many animals are lost, abandoned or surrendered everyday from not fault of their own. The Animal Foundation is a local shelter that works hard to give every animal the love and home they deserve. Still, many people have preconceived notions about adopting animals. Here are the myths we must break.
Rescue animals are troubled.
This has to be one of the biggest myths of all. The majority of unwanted pets end up in a shelter or with a rescue group because of circumstances out of their control. Most animals are not aggressive or fighters. Many of them have owners who can barely take care of themselves or can’t afford to reclaim them.
Rescue animals don’t get along with children or other pets.
FALSE. Rescue pets have just as much capability of loving multiple family members as a pet store pup. Many rescues may have even come from environments with multiple fur siblings. The first few interactions are important to make sure your current family doesn’t feel abandoned or threatened and your new pet feels welcomed. At first, my dogs were not best friends. My rescue was still unsure of his new home and my other pup was defensive. Eight months later, they cuddle in the same bed together. It just takes time and patience from everyone.
Adopting is expensive.
Adopting a pet has become extremely inexpensive for rescues and shelters. Every rescue pet will have a microchip, vaccines, spay/neuter and some training before heading home. All of these items combined would cost $1,000 or more! Still, giving a pet a second chance at love is worth every penny.
Rescues only have older dogs.
Many rescue groups may be breed specific, however many others, including shelters, are open admission. The Animal Foundation in Las Vegas takes animals in all conditions, of all ages and all species and works hard to help them. Other local rescues help a variety of animals all ages and sizes. There is not one breed or size fits all pet. When you find your perfect match, you just know it.
When my husband and I first met our Smokey, we knew we were going to take him home. If you are interested in adding a furry member to your family, choose to adopt not shop and save a life.
You can read Smokey’s adoption story here.
How-O-Ween Dog Costume Contest at Downtown Summerlin
Head to Downtown Summerlin and dress you pup to impress for the annual Howl-O-Ween Dog Costume Contest. As part of Treat Street, this contest offers pups and their parents to show off their good looks. All proceeds from the event benefit The Animal Foundation. Registration is $20 for one animals and $30 for two. Register here.
HalloVeen at Opportunity Village
The famous Magical Forest transforms into a Halloween town during October. Tickets are $12 for adults and $10 for children 4-12. Proceeds benefit the work of Opportunity Village. Buy your tickets here.
Springs Preserve Haunted Harvest Spooktacular
Head to Springs Preserve for the annual Haunted Harvest. Enjoy a haunted maze, petting zoo, face painting and crafts for kids, performances and food! Entry is $8 and children 2 and under are free. Buy tickets here.
TRIQ or Treat and a Halloween Celebration at the LINQ
The LINQ honors Halloween this year with the Zombie Apocalypse. All Halloween weekend, you can enjoy music, face painting and an hourly drum line. Admission is $20.
Prepare to be scared at the famous Freakling Bros. Trilogy of Terror. This year features The Coven, Gates of Hell and Castle Vampyre. Gates of Hell is by far the scariest haunted house I’ve been and do not recommend it for the easily scared. Tickets start at $15 a house. Get tickets here.
Circus Circus Adventure Dome transforms into a haunted nightmare each year for Halloween. Filled with multiple house, scares and classic rides, Fright Dome is the ultimate Halloween experience. Tickets are $37.98. By tickets here.
Finding out I was pregnant was an instant whirlwind. I have plenty of nieces and nephews but still felt completely overwhelmed. Here are 10 things I started with right away to prepare for my mini me.
If you haven’t already started budgeting or your pregnancy is a surprise, start now. My husband and I set a savings goal to achieve by the time the baby arrives. We accounted for all of our bills and saved the rest. We wanted to make sure we had enough to cover bills for three months while I would be off plus the additional expenses.
2. Make a doctor’s appointment.
This may sound pretty obvious but in the midst of all the excitement selecting your doctor is key. Most women already have a specialist that does deliveries but you may not know what hospital they use or anything about the prenatal unit. Get started today.
3. Do your research.
Everyone around you will have advice. Most of it will definitely apply to you but some of it may not. Do your research and decide as parents what works best for you. After all, this will be a team effort for the rest of your life. Why not start coming together on the little stuff?
4. Start a registry.
I chose to use Amazon and Target because they were the simplest options. Target offers a free $20 gift card when you start a registry as well as discounts on not purchased items. Amazon does even better. You can receive free diapers, a baby bundle and discounts on everything on your registry. They both offer a step by step guide on what items you will actually need.
Through the nausea and fatigue, working out can feel like the last thing on my list. Luckily, I was already in the habit of doing 30 minutes to an hour of exercise daily. Consult your doctor on the best workout for your pregnancy but most will agree that yoga is a great choice. My doc suggested 20 – 30 minutes of low impact activity and light weights if I chose to use some. Take a look at prenatal classes in your area as well.
6. Water, Water, Water.
Water will be your new best friend. My doc suggested drinking about a gallon of water a day! At first, it seemed impossible. But I learned a little trick. Use a cup with a straw and you won’t even notice how much you’re effortlessly sipping.
If you haven’t already started taking prenatal vitamins, grab a bottle. You little baby will be soaking everything you have to offer, including your vitamins. Choose one with high folic acid as it’s imperative for brain development. Check with your doc aboutspecific brands they recommend for any other supplements you may need.
8. Have a Baby Moon.
Through the hustle and bustle of preparing for your little miracle, parents get stressed out. My husband and I are planning to get away maybe a few times before the baby arrives. Once the baby is here, it may be a while until vacation is even in our vocabulary.
9. Make a Pinterest Board.
With all these idea swirling around in my head, I had to get them in a central location. I’ve actually created multiple board to organize my thoughts. Head to Pinterest and get pinning!
10. Plan your announcement.
Deciding how we would tell our dozens of family members was difficult. We decided on showing an ultrasound, having my siblings read a Baby Recipe on a chalkboard, wrapped a photo in a baby items for Nana and Facetimed and called members that we couldn’t visit. Our official announcement was a cute photo that we posted on Facebook.
Moms, what items would you add to this list?